Baby breastfeeding

Feeding my baby

It is recommended that you breastfeed your baby exclusively for at least the first six months. Do you know your colostrum from your mature milk? Do you know the signs of a well-fed baby? Help is at hand.

First feeds

If this is your first baby, you might not know what to expect from breastfeeding. Even if you have had a baby before, breastfeeding is a learning process for you and your new baby. 

Breastfeeding takes practice

The key to a content baby who is getting enough milk is good 'attachment'. This is the exact way your baby can take part of your breast into their mouth so their instinctive sucking movements release milk from the right places within your breast. Some breastfeeding problems can be resolved very quickly with small adjustments to a baby's position to improve attachment. 

This video shows you how to attach well.

This video explains how poor attachments can cause problems.

If you are staying on a postnatal ward or in a birth centre, it is a good idea to ask for any help you need. Midwives and maternity support workers are trained to support you and teach you the skills needed. Once at home, please contact your midwife or health visitor if feeding is not going well and a call or visit can be arranged. 

It takes time to work out which feeding and burping positions feel best. 

Where you need more in-depth support with feeding, all Kent and Medway trusts have specialist infant feeding leads to make sure you get the right care.  

Colostrum

When your baby is newborn, you will produce a thick, yellow milk called colostrum. Although people talk about “milk coming in”, colostrum is also milk. Around three days after the birth, your breasts may feel fuller and heavier. The mature milk your body makes at this stage is whiter and more liquid than colostrum. The hormonal change can come with temporary flu-like symptoms.

Before this stage, colostrum contains all the goodness your baby needs. Often called liquid gold, it is nutritionally complete. It is full of protein and dense in nutrition. Your baby will need to feed very often at first, as his or her stomach is very small and breast milk is digested by their little tummy very quickly. 

If you have diabetes, gestational diabetes, take beta blockers or have had breast surgery, it can be helpful to collect colostrum while you are pregnant. 

How often will my baby feed?

The length of each feed may vary, but newborns often need to feed every couple of hours at first.

You can expect around eight to 12 feeds per day, throughout the day and night at first. This can be quite hard when it comes to getting enough sleep, so do lean on your partner, friends and family for help if you need some extra rest. 

If you're concerned about whether your baby is getting enough milk or is feeding too often or not enough, remember that wet and dirty nappies provide reassurance. There's more on what to expect from your baby's nappies here.

Support

There are many excellent videos freely available online. 

Best Beginnings provides a good place to start.

Beside You Kent and Beside You Medway websites have everything you need to know about breastfeeding support in Kent and Medway.

You can also contact the National Breastfeeding Helpline on 0300 100 0212.